Plans…a Guest Post with Lindsey Nobles

I’m excited to have Lindsey Nobles leading off our blog week with the topic of ‘plans’. I’ve cyber-met Lindsey through her blog and I after reading a few posts that hinted at her own struggles with the concept of “my plan” vs. “God’s plan,” I asked if she would hit it straight on. And I’m glad she did! Like her, I wonder how Jeremiah 29:11 really plays out for each one of us. I’d encourage you to ask yourself just how you interpret this verse….here’s Lindsey’s thoughts:

Plans

Some of my close friends make fun of me because I always have to have a plan.

We’ll bump into each other at a party and they’ll casually mention, “We don’t have much going on. Maybe we could do dinner one night next week? Whatever works for you.” But much to their chagrin I pin them down, “So we’ll do an early dinner next Thursday night?”

I just prefer to have a clear sense of what’s ahead.

Even as a little girl, I had plans. They might have been tentative. But they were plans.

I’d go away to school, meet eclectic friends, date some bad boys, travel to far away countries, and find success in a job I loved. By 28, I’d marry the perfect boy. By 30, I’d have a little girl named Reade. (Geez. I didn’t realize how much detail I’d crafted in my head until I wrote that down. So maybe I’m a little compulsive ;)

But here I sit, 33, single, childless, and learning the hard lesson that we never truly have a clear sense of what’s ahead.

I’m learning that tomorrow is out of my control.

I’ve always found comfort in this Bible verse:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 (New International Version)

But until recently when I read it, what I really took away was this:

“For I know the plans you have,” declares the LORD, “plans for success and a comfortable life, plans to give you an abundant future. I will make all your dreams come true.” Lindsey 1:1 (Distorted Version)

As difficult as it is to comprehend at times, I am learning to prefer His version. Even when His plans don’t line up with mine.

I am learning that tomorrow is in His control. So I need not worry.

“Seek FIRST the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and then these things will be given to you too. So do not worry about tomorrow. Let tomorrow worry about itself. Living faithfully is a large enough task for today.” Matthew 6:33-34 (The Voice)

Because living faithfully is a large enough task for today.

Lindsey Nobles is Thomas Nelson’s Director of Corporate Communications. In her role, she oversees all public communication about the company. A native Texan, Lindsey lives in Nashville, Tennessee with her dog, Molly. She is passionate about her faith, books, movies, music, food, travel, and blogging.

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  • http://www.lindseynobles.com Lindsey Nobles

    Nicole,

    Thank you for letting me share. So fun to get out on other blogs and connect with more people. I love what you are doing here. Look forward to getting to know you better!

    Lindsey

  • http://lizclaudio.wordpress.com Liz

    Lindsey hit it straight on indeed! "…living faithfully is a large enough task for today." SO TRUE. Loved this.

  • http://www.meghmill.erocm Megan Miller

    Linds,

    Great post. I am totally in this place myself. I'm actually working on a post about my own version of this theme. It's so easy for me to want control more than intimacy and adventure with Christ. Thanks for sharing this part of your story.

    • The Stubborn Servant

      Megan, thanks for the comment. If you get your post up this week, stop back by and link it up here!

  • http://blakeunfettered.wordpress.com Blake Bergstrom

    Lindsey…this is brilliant. I have been guilty of wanting to take the pen from God and write my own story. I think I'm a better writer and author of my own life than God. Well said!!

    • The Stubborn Servant

      Blake, I love that thought about taking the pen. I've been thinking alot about the use of "receive" in scripture…that God calls us to be in the mode of receiver, not quarterback. Thanks for stopping by.

  • http://www.womenlivingwell-courtney.blogspot.com Courtney(WomenLiving

    Beautifully transparent post that touches me as a married homeschooling mommy…we don't know what's around that next bend – we must just continually walk with God.

    I once heard Phil Vischer (the creator of Veggie Tales) say: "I used to make 1,5, and 10 year goals. When people asked me my plans I knew exactly where I was headed. Then tragedy struck, I clinged to Psalm 23 and I learned to say – I don't know where I will be in 1,5, or 10 years I just want to be in the center of God's will."

    The center of God's will that's where I want to be!!

    Keep walking with the King!

    Courtney
    http://www.womenlivingwell-courtney.blogspot.com

  • Bethany

    Lindsay, Thanks for sharing. I have always loved that verse, then I read it in the King James. Love, love, love it in KJV. It reminds me that its about our relationship with God, not our wants.

    • The Stubborn Servant

      Here’s that verse in the KJV. Very cool…

      For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.

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  • http://slidingdownthestairs.blogspot.com Kristy

    I resonate so much with what Lindsey wrote. I'm a planner, too – and will realistically probably continue to nail people down to a specific date when they say, lets get together for dinner.

    But when it comes to life plans, I'm learning to let go of the reins. I'm learning to handle God's course corrections with more grace and less obstinance – its certainly less painful that way! But I'm finding that one of the best gifts in trusting his plans is that I'm better able to embrace what is good about now – to enjoy where I am to the fullest.

    He's proven over and over again that he is faithful. I love this quote from Elizabeth Barrett Browning:

    "God's gifts put man's best dreams to shame."

  • http://www.lindseynobles. Lindsey Nobles

    Bethany, Love the KJV translation of that one.

  • http://mypacificnorthwestadventure.blogspot.com/ Jenna

    Amen.

    Thank you everyone for sharing. I'm a compulsive planner and I think it's a reaction to my displeasure in the stark contrast between my plans and those of the Lords. And still I feel like all of the people above who have commented, about acceptance, and planning, about relationship with the Lord over wants, etc. It's such a fine balance, this walk with Jesus and although I love him so much, I find I fight with him like a wild horse, struggling against any reigns; yet I know well that he provides the best for us all. "Oh Lord, please find us all in our 'place' of control and create healing so that acceptance and peace can come to us. Amen"

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  • http://traceepersiko.wordpress.com Tracee

    Great words of truth Lindsey. I appreciate your remix as well! I remix scripture all the time and don't even realize it.

    The part I get stuck in that verse is, "for i know.." Guess I don't need to know. I just need to believe that he does know and see what happens.

  • http://scarletcordm.com Kamrie

    I can definitely see what you mean. Sometimes God will show me a little bit of what he has in store for me with this little bit of info I take it and make it into my own dream. Then God tells me that my plan is nothing like what he sees in my future. I hate this, but I know in the end his will is way better than mine.

    • The Stubborn Servant

      great point, Kamrie. i often get thrown off my God showing me a bit and then me running with it. Hard to figure out when to move and when to wait!

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  • http://silenthearts.wordpress.com Morgan MacGavin

    Lindsey, such a great post! Interesting that you are amongst many others I've read today regarding Gods plan. Maybe He is trying to tell us something? I know I'm guilty of wanting my version.

  • http://ksinift.wordpress.com Katrina

    "Because living faithfully is a large enough task for today." I love that! And what a great life motto for no matter where we are at in our lives. I can live faithfully for God in wherever He has placed me, even if it's not where I think I should be or want to be. I don't need to worry about His plans for me (or my plans :) ). All I need to be concerned with is living faithfully with where He has me in this moment. Thanks for sharing!! :)

  • http://www.gritandglory.com alece

    so good, linds. reminds me again how much i need to put my faith in who God is, not in what He does (which really becomes what i think He should do). because whether my plans or dreams ever become a reality, His character remains the same. He is good and loving and faithful, no matter what is happening in my life. thank you for helping me see that again.

  • http://ignoranthistorian.com Ronnica

    Awesome post! This could have been written by me. I need to focus on today. God has worked out the details beautifully (if not comfortably) in my life so far…why don't I trust him to continue to do so?

  • http://inkindle.wordpress.com/ Judy D

    Love planners. When my husband (many years ago) finally proposed, he asked when I thought we should get married. I said, "The next plan is June 8."

    Having spent years as a counselor to God on plans for my life, I have a few things that have become clear to me: God loves me. His plans coordinate with how He has made me–they involve using my gifts, strengths, etc. However they are also all about growing me in character and Christlikeness, which involves some living out of strength and giftedness. And finally, His plans are ALWAYS better than my plans.

    • The Stubborn Servant

      Judy, I love that thought…that God's plans use our gifts and ALSO some living out of our gifts so that he can shape our character. Great point!

  • http://ModernServantLeader.com Benjamin Lichtenwaln

    I noticed your plans as a child did not include positively influencing many thousands (more?) through your blog and work at TN, Lindsey. I thank God for this plan he seems to have had for you and others I've dicovered online. Thank you for your gift and for sharing it with us.

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