Joy: 5 Normal: 0


Today is the first day of practicing my one-word resolution: Joy.

5 Random things that brought joy today:

1. Eyelash Curler

seriously, ladies, this wakes your whole face up. Do it.

Joy: 1 Tired Eyes: 0

2. Dancing

This was my view today at 10:02 AM at the Chuck-E-Cheese. With more than five what-happened-to-my-life Chuck-E-Cheese workers looking at me, I taught this Dance Machine a lesson! Actually, I scored an F. Now, the kinda joyful Nicole of 2010 would have played once and scurried off to act like a mom who cares about my toddler on the horsey ride. But the JOY-Nicole got back on that thing AGAIN, onlookers be darned!. AND I scored a D.

Joy: 2 Normal: 0.

3. This Face
I’m sorry. I don’t care that I’m his mom. That is JOY right there.

Joy: 3 Harried Mom: 0

4. Gratitude. Now I hate to sound trite and tell you (in my head this is a very nasaly, whiny voice) Just count your blessings! I find that “counting your blessings” usually involves things like health and food and children and good parking spots. Not that I don’t think those things are awesome. But when I count my blessings I want to count the promises God has made and delivered on.

Here’s the thing: I think God actually wants us to be wowed by him. Not because he gives us an iPad for Christmas, but because he shows up in a way that makes us know that there is a spiritual realm. That He is present and moving and working around us, and in us, and through us in other’s lives. That there is a kingdom on the move and that kingdom is here. So when I count my blessings, I want to see THAT.

When I counted those kind of blessings for 2010, I wrote down TWENTY. I was in awe of God’s presence in my life, and frankly, a little embarassed that I didn’t recognize how active He was, blessing me left and right in 2010. I am grateful, which makes me joyful.

5. Bible Search Engines. Because I wanted to find a verse with “joy” and “dancing” in it. I found this one:

You turn my mourning to dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy Ps 30:11

Mourning and sackcloth sound a wee bit dramatic (well maybe not after this post), but I think somewhere between the sackcloth and the Dance machine at Chuck-E-Cheese, God whispered:

if it ain’t happenin’ with joy, it ain’t happening.

Touche, my Lord, touche. No matter what. No circumstances should separate me from true joy.

Joy: 5 Normal: 0.

You turned my disappointment to laughter, you took off straitjacket of the ordinary and replaced it with the best-ever dancin’ boots of joy.

It’s not too late to join the one-word resolution revolution! Leave a comment here with your name and word so i can add you to the prayer page! If you’ve already signed up, how’d your first day go??

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Nicole Unice is a fresh voice for the next generation. Part bible teacher, part community organizer, part busy mom–Nicole has the uncanny ability to relate to people in all ages and stages of life with her “keeping it real” approach to ordering a life around God’s word.

  • carleene72

    Word: inspire….day…..I was inspired by my housecleaner who can whip this place into shape really fast, I, on the other hand, could not get half finished in the same amount of time…YET, I was inspired and determined to keep at it…and I danced while cleaning….

    • Nicole Unice

      I hope you played loud music, too!

  • ksinift

    Now that I stop and think about it, I did pretty well for my first day! My word: Fountain. And my day has included two things that are on my list of ways to make my life a fountain.
    -Spend more time with positive, encouraging people: I had lunch with 2 really good friends.
    -Take better care of myself: I came right home after work and am enjoying a relaxing evening at home for once! :)

    P.S. I love your story about playing on the Dance Machine! That's awesome! :)
    My recent post Make Me a Fountain

    • Nicole Unice

      Go Katrina! Doesnt it feel good to pay attention to that word and see changes, even small ones…Sent from my iPhone

  • Michelle Calhoun

    THANK YOU! On my way to work this morning, and I always pray in the Fort McHenry tunnel, I prayed that my thoughts and speech be turned to "whatever is true, noble, right, pure, admirable, acceptable, praiseworthy, or excellent." I prayed to think differently about an upcoming ski trip that turns my stomach in multiple directions for different reasons. And then I read your blog! You thought differently (with JOY) about getting back on the dancing machine, and I'm thinking with JOY about learning to snowboard and being around people I'm not sure about. If you're out for a good time, you'll make a good time, especially if God's invited along with you.

    • Nicole Unice

      if you're out for a good time, you'll make a good time. That is twitter-worthy, my friend. Thanks for sharing!